The research on homosexuality is very clear. Homosexuality is neither
mental illness nor moral depravity. It is simply the way a minority of our
population expresses human love and sexuality. Study after study documents the
mental health of gay men and lesbians. Studies of judgment, stability,
reliability, and social and vocational adaptiveness all show that gay men and
lesbians function every bit as well as heterosexuals.
Nor is homosexuality a matter of individual choice. Research suggests
that the homosexual orientation is in place very early in the life cycle,
possibly even before birth. It is found in about ten percent of the population,
a figure which is surprisingly constant across cultures, irrespective of the
different moral values and standards of a particular culture. Contrary to what
some imply, the incidence of homosexuality in a population does not appear to
change with new moral codes or social mores. Research findings suggest that
efforts to "repair" homosexuals are nothing more than social prejudice garbed in
psychological accoutrements.
All targets of discrimination, be they blacks, women, handicapped, or
religious sects, have a uniquely horrible dimension to their suffering. This is
true for gay men and lesbians as well. Psychologically, sexuality and sexual
orientation represent life forces which form the most sensitive bedrock of our
being. They not only shape our attitudes and our passions, but they are so
fundamental to our personality structure that they, in large part, determine our
sense of personal cohesiveness and our level of comfort in the world. They are
the driving force with which we love, work, and create.
For patients [in psychotherapy], the societal assumption that
homosexuality [is] sick and/or immoral creates an emotional, sensual, and
spiritual prison where self-expression, love, and the deepest forms of human
connectedness [are] stultified though anguishing guilt and self-loathing. For
those of us in psychology who have had this kind of experience working with gay
men and lesbians, the impact has been quite profound. For over two decades now,
the American Psychological Association has advocated the elimination of
discrimination against gay men and lesbians.
Finally, if one thinks about the vast real problems confronting our
society and attacking our family structure--problems such as family violence,
divorce, drug and alcohol abuse, child abuse, homelessness, and isolation, it
becomes clear that individuals who are obsessed with how a minority of our
citizens express love and sexuality have, indeed, established a most peculiar
set of priorities, both for themselves and for others.
Healthy and secure heterosexuals do not feel threatened by homosexuality.
Healthy heterosexuals don't need to oppress homosexuals. Healthy heterosexuals
don't need to "repair" homosexuals.
The real issue confronting our society today is not why people seek love
and understanding as they do, but why some seem so unable to love and understand.